Escort Q: How do I handle (X) callers?
Thanks for the question.
The original phrase of this was 'how do I handle stupid callers?'
I felt that the word stupid carried alot of prejudgements and a lot of frustration that is counterproductive to being a good escort.
Here's a conversation that drives escorts up the wall
Yo. Wassup? You avail?
Hi, what's your name and website did you see my ad on please?'
Internet. Yo, how much to suck?
I can't answer that question. Please refer to -
Hey! It's a simple question, DO YOU SUCK?
This is just one variation of the kind of interactions we face.
There are many reasons this kind of failure to communicate and facilitate a session happens. I can list them in excrutiating detail, but you want to hear how to handle it, right?
First, calm down. Take a breath.
Recognize you are dealing with a difficult caller.
Have a plan ready. Is the caller someone you are prepared to take if you are able to somehow make the deal go through?
If yes, you may want to learn to speak their language. For instance, with hesitant callers, I offer them times where, if they back out of a session, it doesn't interrupt my day.
You also want to ask, 'What is the risk this caller is posing?'
In the example above, you have a caller does not show attention to detail (such as reading your ad), does not show manners (such as asking a blunt, vulgar question to a stranger), does not show concern or willingingness to understand your limits (interrupting you and not getting the cue that this is not okay to talk about).
Thank you for calling. Goodbye.
Simple as that.
Oct 19, 2014, 11:43 pm