I think I make a good massage client. I've had a lot of massages over many years and have learned how to communicate openly and respectfully with a masseur. The both of us should know what I'm looking for and what my limits -- and his -- are so the masseur can take the massage where it ought to go without being micromanaged. I look for a masseur who knows a man's body and has the experience and technique to work on it effectively and creatively. For me the best massage is a mix of the***utic, sensual, and erotic. And it's given by a masseur who's good at what he does in all three of those areas and mixes things up a bit. Where it goes is up to us . . .