A: I over share on my blog (not here--my site's blog) nycmasseur dot com/blog. I do it to try to school myself in the dirty affairs of men.
A: Watch too many movies! Pet my cat and worship the Moon.
A: Harm reduction with alcohol. 3-4 nights a week of being sober is no bed of roses~Also worked in Calvary Hospital for 4 years; nothing like doing hospice massage to wake you up and treasure living and being healthy. But dying is our last great lesson. Therapy is good, as is doing Pilates under the sky on the roof, writing in my journal, making video blogs of my work and life experiences nycmasseur.com/blog
A: Make music, mix music and write poetry. Unnicycling is fun as hell and also takes a lot of courage to do.
A: In March of 2025 I was hit by a truck LITERALLY--and I survived to tell the tale. Also recently turned 66 (my online age). At first I was freaky and scared--now I quote Ms. Davis; aging is indeed NOT for sissies.
A: Being me.
A: My ability to recover--and keep my mouth shut when I'm triggered by A-***** or no-show clients (mean gays). I'm working on the kindness thing...maybe you should too? : )
A: Hot Daddy, Bad Daddy; or a damn hot FABULOUS creature called "FABULON."
A: I love traveling but am equally comfortable at home.
A: Biking, unicycling, physical therapy for my shoulder, Apostherapy for my back. Gym 3-4 times a week; I love fish and salads, occasional junk food. I also do Chinese herbs for maximum health (prostate in particular).
A: Currently writing a novella which is published online (Google COMFORT by Saintorr.) I also work out and meditate every day. Being outdoors and active (bike-riding) is a tremendous release. Absolutely addicted to watching horror movies. I also try to practice three days a week of not drinking. Challenging but necessary as I hate being addicted to anything (and would never pay for s.)
A: I treasure my gold as much as I treasure getting to know my shadow. Lived here long enough to know change is all we can be sure of. I was never ever a Chelsea boy type and have always been at heart an East Village iconoclast type; a musician, an actor, a performance artist and my own man. And I am a lousy proofreader! I still love the neighborhood but too many people are on their phones. I miss the ocean (P-town--did my CD there in 2000) and sometimes those green, rolling cornfields of the Midwest (I was born in Illinois). The city is a great place to do massage and constantly explore and evolve and work on oneself, and meet new people who are also evolving and on their journey. The city can also be full of so much s*** that the shields and walls we created out of the necessity to survive can be truly be draining. I also love gardening and therapy.
A: I would be curious as to who's paying; or is this "Dutch Treat?"
A: I would never hurt you, lie to you or steal from you--and I ask the same from you. I have been hurt a lot by doing this work; and dealing with mean gays lacking in integrity. So am have a need to constantly remind myself that there are gay men with integrity and kindness. This is also why I participate in the Mankind Project; a place where men are trying to be better, let go of their masks and work on their individual accountability. Doing m4m massage can also be powerfully rewarding and healing both for both the Soul/self and for the client.
A: My musicality (saintorr.bandcamp.com) and my ability to laugh at myself and write. And I love teaching music: ) and massage (of course). Male energy can renew me; it can also be terrifying.
A: Health, nature, music, men and faith (prayer).