Looking for great a time (discreet and safe only)

I always play safe and I'm also very discreet.

Looking explore my kinky side:
-Bondage
-Gear
-Hypnosis
-Gaining/Feeding

The type of Dom I'm interested in:
-Passionate and loves taking care of a sub.
-Can take control and lead. Not in a rough way, but more sensual.
-Takes the time to find the right spots to give sub the best pleasure possible.
-That is verbal. Sensual whispers or affirmative words like 'Good boy'.

The type of guys I fantasize the most, is the one very kind and that loves giving soothing smiles. That also gives off a feeling of comfort; a feeling that tells me he's here to take care of me and is passionate about it.
I'm really fond of daddy or big brother types. Prefer taller and/or with a bigger muscular build. But guys around my size/shape is cool too. Usually go for older than me or my age.

I'll only be able to meet an *** at their place, or some other suggested places.

Thanks for reading