Looking for great a time (discreet and safe only)

I always play safe and I'm also very discreet.

Looking explore my kinky side:
-Bondage
-Gear
-Hypnosis
-Gaining/Feeding

The type of Dom I'm interested in:
-Passionate and loves taking care of a sub.
-Can take control and lead. Not in a rough way, but more sensual.
-Takes the time to find the right spots to give sub the best pleasure possible.
-That is verbal. Sensual whispers or affirmative words like 'Good boy'.

The type of guys I fantasize the most, is the one very kind and that loves giving soothing smiles. That also gives off a feeling of comfort; a feeling that tells me he's here to take care of me and is passionate about it.
I'm really fond of daddy or big brother types. Prefer taller and/or with a bigger muscular build. But guys around my size/shape is cool too. Usually go for older than me or my age.

I'll only be able to meet an at their place, or some other suggested places.

Thanks for reading