Domination not Humiliation
I prefer experienced, verbal, dominant, masculine tops: "Daddy" types.
A man with a presence that is at first seductive, but becomes more commanding and causes my body/my self to yield to him naturally. Men who take control and can be subtly forceful; but their presence will do most of the work. Know how to read my reactions and adjust. Men who are dominating without humiliating.
A good match is likely over 30, even 35. At least 5' 10" to provide body contact.
I enjoy verbal, but the right one doesn't have to say a word.