I guess it depends what I’m doing, but I always try to excel or put in extra effort when I do things in life. When interacting with someone I’ll always be present; you’ll never see me look at my phone while you’re talking, and I use conversation to really listen and try to understand a person. When we’re in bed I’m very attentive to your needs. If it’s aggression you like, I go the extra mile by arching my back and pushing back harder when it hurts and never letting a gag reflex affect what I’m doing. Whether it’s just us or a group, you’ll never hear me complain or slow down the fun. If you’re feeling submissive I can start so slow you’ll think you were born with me inside you, and I’ll pick up the intensity with constant attention to your comfort. Mild to wild; you’ll see that I’m always about that ‘extra mile’.

I would never intentionally do something to hurt another person. I was bullied and picked on pretty hard when I was younger, so I go out of my way to make sure I don’t cause anyone else to feel inadequate or insecure. I try to compliment and lift people up whenever possible.

This is going to sound generic and is also probably infringing upon a Hallmark card, but my best moment was when I realized how in control I am of my own life, and that I have the ability to enjoy each moment and to make each moment enjoyable for others. Since that realization I can’t say I’ve always been my best self. Some days I get home from work and spend three hours watching trash TV; however, I do try to use free time to do good when I can. I always try to entertain others and be a source of positivity. If you don’t like that answer, then my best experiences are finishing my first marathon and graduating from medical school.

Empathizing with and seeing beauty in everyone I meet, giving hugs, untying knots, listening to what a person is really saying beyond the words I’m hearing, holding my breath underwater, building igloos, playing instruments, giving advice, giving head, cheering people up, trivia games, cuddling (equal-opportunity spooner), listening to and respecting opinions that differ from my own, climbing trees, climbing anything, folding a fitted sheet, magic card tricks, meeting moms... Those are the first things that come to mind. Oh! Also puzzles.