A: You'll probably learn everything you need to know about me through my Spotify playlist: sc.idc | https://open.spotify.com/playlist/39odstEiJJykhSYLEoOd59
A: If you don't laugh at my joke, it's cause it's a thinker, and you'll get it later.
A: Ambition. Conviction. Altruism.
A: Yeehaw baby - I have a fleet of cowboy hats and on top or on bottom I'll give you the ride of your life.
A: I am a palm reader! Want me to read yours while we're together?
A: My hilarious recalcitrance to sunscreen despite all signs pointing to 'wear the mf sunscreen you fool.'
A: What should --you-- as the reader know about me? I am not on RM for survival. I am on here to offer high end professional companionship that you can't get from someone desperate. I am offering a more equal power dynamic. If you are interested in financially controlling me because you're a client and I am available to rendezvous, you will be sorely disappointed. When we rendezvous, I am your equal, your peer, your boyfriend experience.
A: A tech startup slid into my LinkedIn DMs in January 2024 as a fully remote role, offered me the job on contingency of moving me from Seattle to Manhattan, and not only met but exceeded every demand (money, benefits, stock) I asked for. I then spent over a year building a sales team from scratch at a venture-backed Series A construction tech company in NYC.
A: I am an excellent skiier and bon vivant.
A: My life has not been conventional. People assume from my poise and preferences for the finer things in life that I come from a place of privilege. I am privileged, but not extraordinarily so. My mother's family is from the green mountains of Vermont with a fierce Irish Catholic streak. My father was from coastal Mississippi, but we derive from eight generations of French Catholic men who owned a sugar cane plantation in Louisiana - I come from one of the oldest French families in North America, settling in Louisiana fifty years before George Washington and the American Revolution. I was born in Amish country in rural Pennsylvania. I was with my ex husband for eight years ages 18-26 and we had a beautiful relationship where we built each other up and made each other better men when we agreed that the world is a big, big place and it was time for us to expand our horizons beyond grey Seattle. I spent some time working in tech sales at Mastercard and Amazon in Seattle and a tech startup in Manhattan. My favorite book is 'Against the Grain,' which was the book that drove Dorian Gray and Oscar Wilde mad. There is so much more to discuss and I can't wait to learn about you, too.
A: Meaningful conversation: I genuinely need intellectual and emotional stimulation in my life. Travel: it's not about resetting my energy... it's simply a lifestyle with an expanded world view. Humor: even in life's worst situations, I remind myself I'll be laughing about it in a couple weeks and that's almost always the case; and when I can't laugh, I still find the good. Connection: whether it's romantic, social, platonic, human chemistry is what makes life interesting. Lastly, sweets: I fluctuate between chocolate and gummy, but nothing hits like a sugar rush.
A: Compared to other companions here, I feel like I'm a real person with substance rather than a manufactured persona. I've lived enough life to be genuinely interesting - travel, finance, tech, relationships, reinvention, loss, nightlife, different cultures - and I can pull from all of it naturally in conversation.
I'm also unusually good at balancing polish with approachability. I can exist comfortably in high-end environments without becoming cold, stiff, or transactional. People tend to relax around me quickly because I'm perceptive, witty, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely engaged. I am not stand-offish or defensive - although start a lively debate and you'll see as a contrarian how I can argue any side.
I think the combination fo charm, intelligence, discretion, humor, and unpredictability is what makes people remember me.
A: I am well traveled and enjoy the energy shift that comes with being in a different city. I like trendy hotels, any airport with Centurion Lounge access, rooftop bars, long dinners, wandering neighborhoods, and the feeling of stepping briefly into another version of life. I'm happiest when there's a mix of sophistication, spontaneity, and good conversation involved.
That said, I'm not someone who constantly needs to escape. I also enjoy creating a beautiful, comfortable home environment and having slower nights in with the right company. I'd say I'm selectively adventurous rather than restless.
Let's talk about any of my travels that resonate with you. These aren't all my recent travels, just a few that may spark conversation. Where have you been?
PLEASURE:
Amsterdam, NL (Mar '23)
Biloxi, MS (Oct '25)
Charleston, SC (oodles)
Lisbon, PT (Mar '23)
Medellin, CO (Feb '25)
PRIDES:
Barcelona, ES (Jul '25)
Prague, CZ (Aug '25)
Honolulu, HI (Oct '22)
Montreal, CA (Aug '25)
New York City, NY (Jun '25)
Seattle, WA (oodles)
Vancouver, CA (oodles)
Whistler, CA (Jan '23)
WORK:
Bratislava, SL (Jul '23)
London, UK (Jul '23)
San Jose, CR (oodles)
Vienna, AT (Jul '23)