A: The last time I went to the beach, I thought some otters were trying to drown me so they could make sweet, vicious love to my corpse, but in hindsight they were probably just curious harbour seals
A: Coconut oil, adoration, multiple orgasms, the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy and snow winters
A: I can speak to crows and am trying to befriend the locals so that they'll bring me shiny things.
A: Sewing, reading, writing, gooning, watching movies, swimming, boxing, foraging
A: I'm very process oriented. It's the details, the way that I operate, that matters more than the final result. By going through life well and with care, I'm able to keep myself in true and even end up at destinations I could not have foreseen in advance.
A: Fuck ;)
A: I helped found a community art space that became a vital hub for hundreds of queers, people of colour and low-income people throughout the city.
A: Besides my height and full head of hair? I have decades of experience in the kink community, as well as the resources and passion to meet near any request.
A: I'm a good listener with a calming demeanor. People can get intimidated because of my size, but they often relax quickly. This helps me form a rapport with friends new and old, a safer space where we can relax and dig deep together.
A: Tender violence. I like to alternate between a kiss on one cheek and a slap on the other. Finding people's thresholds for pain, discomfort or submission and pushing them just a bit further each time.
A: A few times a year, I'll visit friends in Montreal. Other than that, I don't travel much unless it's for work or another specific reason. Love Chicago and hope to visit München again soon.
A: In season, I work as a gardener, with cycling and swimming to help stretch out the muscles. Off season, I hit the weights and the heavy bag multiple times a week.
A: I'm pretty much a homebody. I take care of my plants, work on sewing projects and watch movies. When I go out, it's to relax in the park, hit up the bathhouse or help out friends with odds and ends.
A: I've started studying for my bachelor's degree recently, majoring in creative writing.
A: I'm a Midwest boy with a strong work ethic, an easy laugh and a gentle patience.
A: My curiosity and creativity. I like getting to know people and figuring out what makes them tick.