My boundaries are set, I expect them to be respected as I will yours and they are not flexible. With power dynamics, I take it seriously if you are trusting me with that power, I will not abuse it, and likewise if you are requesting for me to relinquish my power to you, I expect it not be abused either. While I can be a piece of meat to you, I’m a piece of meat who wont put up with behaviour that hasn’t been discussed or consented to. Zero tolerance for this.

Creating play lists on Spotify and pretending I’m a sick DJ, the gym is my number one hobbie/lifestyle, hitting the beach, quality time with quality people and vibing and connecting with new interesting people.

I’m pretty basic. Gym, food, sex, weed, beach and friends. Sometimes. I like to spend time alone more often than not. I’m not very social but as per my therapist, am trying to get out there and be social. It’s not easy being neurodivergent and having to constantly defend and explain myself to neurotypical people when THEY can learn about ME so I don’t have to keep apologising for my brain being wired differently. So FYI I have ADHD and some ASD traits so keep that in mind before making assumptions based on my behaviour, reactions or things I may say. Be a grown up and if you need clarification, just ask me, I wont get offended. I’d rather you be straight up if you have a problem, so I can explain it or if I’m unaware of it, I can adjust myself accordingly. HONESTY and being UPRONT please.

Through education and specific therapy, I have learnt how early childhood trauma has shaped who I am to this day. This has given my great insight not only in myself, but others who are walking around, thinking they are horrible people unaware that they too are products of their trauma. This gives me the ability to be understanding and non judgmental as everyone has a story, everyone has damage, it’s your behaviour that if problematic, is something to talk about.