DaddyLance's Pornstar Interview

My Pornstar Interview
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Philadelphia : Oct 21-22
Minneapolis: Oct 23-26
San Francisco: Dec 3-8

If you’d like to spend time with Daddy while I’m in your city, I don’t use the messaging system here. Please visit DaddyLance.com to review scheduling and session information, then email me through the website.

For over 17 years, I’ve dedicated my work to sacred intimacy, massage, and ***-positive the***utic experiences. To me, being a Daddy isn’t just a role—it’s about creating a space where you can exhale, feel safe, be fully yourself, and know you’ll be met with kindness, confidence, acceptance, and genuine care. Whether you’re experienced or just beginning to explore, you never need to worry about judgment with me.

I’ve had the privilege of working with clients from every walk of life and welcome all ages, body types, ethnicities, identities, and abilities. I’ve worked with cis and trans men (and a few women), from 19 to 95 years old, and with bodies ranging from 120 to over 400 pounds. I am HIV-negative, take PrEP and Doxy-PEP, and am comfortable with clients regardless of HIV status, while always respecting each person’s boundaries, communication style, and safety preferences.

Some clients come to me seeking nurturing touch, relaxation, and emotional connection. Others want to explore BDSM, power exchange, Daddy/boy dynamics, role-play, or consensual non-consent (CNC). Every session is thoughtfully tailored to your needs and built on trust, clear communication, enthusiastic consent, and mutual respect.

My hope is that you leave not only feeling physically satisfied, but also seen, accepted, empowered, deeply nurtured, and reminded that exactly as you are, you are worthy of affection, connection, and care.

If that resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you. Please visit DaddyLance.com to learn more and contact me there about scheduling.
Q: What do you do for fun?

A: I enjoy remaining active, whether that means walking around the amazing city I call home, going to the gym or playing softball (I play on the Gay SF League.) I enjoy reading, prefer comedic memoirs, Sedaris and Burroughs are a few of my favorites, but I also enjoy books on anthropology, spirituality, neurobiology, sociology and of course SEX!

I love to travel, especially to places that are warm. I get to Palm Springs 3-4 times a year and my partner and I go to Puerto Vallarta every year. I also travel to the east coast a fair amount and try to get to NYC at least once a year.

I enjoy live theatre and music, and try to see as much local theatre as I can, and also a few touring shows each year. I also just got my first motorcycle, after just 8 short years of having had my motorcycle license. I love the feeling of freedom that it brings and its a great excuse to wear leather too.

Q: Tell us about the best experience you have had in life.

A: Probably the trip I took in October 2014 to Vietnam and Cambodia. It was my partners idea and was not a place I had ever thought about visiting, but it was life changing. The temples of Siem Reap were incredible, and being welcomed by villagers who were so happy even though they had very little materialistically, was enlightening. It all gave me enormous appreciation for what I have, but also clarity that "things" don't make one happy. Happiness comes from acceptance, family, love, light and connection.

This trip also gave me the travel bug and now I really want to plan another big trip. I would love to start doing more traveling with clients, so I am hoping more of those opportunities will present themselves for that.

Q: How do you go the 'Extra Mile' in your life?

A: I just try to give all the energy to someone that they need. For some, this can be exhausting for me spiritual and energetically, but it's what I do, and I can recoup easily enough.

Q: What would you say are your greatest attributes?

A: A lot of questions about "specialities"! I know that I will never have the most ripped bod, the flattest stomach, or the biggest cock (though it IS big). If I went through my life comparing myself to others, I could become a pretty unhappy person. I feel I have a pretty big heart, and I am not afraid to share that. I hope only to inspire others to love themselves deeper and in doing so, spread more love into the world.

Q: What is your specialty?

A: As I have said in other questions, I prefer a session that is sensual, intimate and passionate, and anytime I have a session that allows time for some bodywork, it feels nice, cause I am able to share all my skills.

Q: What are your lifestyle specifics that makes who you are?

A: Even when I am busy, I still have a good amount of free time, and I have a hard time setting still. I try to make it to the gym at least 4-5 times a week, I come from a family where everyone is overweight, so I have to really keep at it to stay in shape and avoid "the genetic betrayal that is my legacy". I enjoy photography, writing, live theatre, concerts, hiking/camping and traveling (when the opportunity and finances allow it).

Q: How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or are you more of a homebody?

A: I travel about every 2 months, usually for a week, sometimes two. I love traveling, but I love SF even more, so I miss it when I'm gone... hell, I miss it within minutes of take-off

Q: What kind of diet and fitness regimen do you follow?

A: I try to work out about 5 days a week, some weeks its more like 6 and others (especially when Im traveling), it's closer to 1. Even days when I dont work out, I try to do something to take care of my body, either yoga, stretching, or self-massage.

Q: If we sat on the beach and drank wine and ate great food just you and I, what would you tell me about yourself and your life?

A: I would probably tell ya a little bit about my perspectives on life and what happiness means to me. I would tell you about my expereriences working in retail management and how the transition from that to ***ing was a scary one (as change always is), but how I have arrived at my ultimate happiness because of it. I would probably talk a bit about theatre, as it is a big interest and also my experience riding in Aids Lifecycle, which I've done the last 5 years and from which I have some great stories.

Q: What should others absolutely know about you?

A: That I am perhaps one of the kindest and most caring/compassionate men you will ever meet. I have been told by some that I am intimidating on a physical level, but everyone that I've ever seen has commented on how comfortable and easy my spirit is.

Q: What do you enjoy most about yourself?

A: I feel, more than I ever have in my life, that I have the opportunity to really help people, my sharing with them my energy, touch, and knowledge. I get to see men at their most vulnerable and be part of the greatest pleasure the body can feel, and I find it incredibly beautiful.

Q: What are 5 things you can’t live without?

A: Love, purpose, passion, sex, and my Iphone

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23 Oct - Oct 26 Minneapolis, MN
03 Dec - Dec 08 San Francisco, CA
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