Escort Q: Which makes more money? Being a top or a bottom?
Thanks for writing.
Based on my experience, if you want a long term career as a male escort, then you need to be a good top. When callers want to meet you, they're wondering if they want a top or a bottom, not a versatile.
2/3 of men who have relations with men identify as receptive partners. Meaning that just 1 in 3 are naturally active. From here, being a top is developed as a skill. Can you please your partner? Can you make them feel like they're the center of your world, even if just for the hour? Can you stay with them, be healthy and have the stamina from start to finish? This is a SKILL set that you can learn and get better with.
There are visitors who want bottoms too. If you are smaller, have naturally good butt control, have a more 'cute' appearance, then tops will naturally gravitate toward you. Make the most of it.
If you enjoy bottoming and want to offer that option, open a conversation with your caller. I'd have to say about 1 in 5 enjoy being tops and would enjoy if you could provide that for them if they knew the option was available.
If you do advertise as a top, NO FULL ON ASS SHOTS.
Nothing else I've heard of creates anxiety for callers to read that you're a top but to see you might not be.
Do a side butt shot to show that you have power. Strong butts are the keystone of good athletes.
Nov 21, 2014, 8:27 pm